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Saturday Aug 13, 2022
Saturday Aug 13, 2022
Just when you thought our Enneagram series was finished – we're back with another Ennea episode! We promise this ConvoCast will actually be the last one on the Enneagram (at least for a good while). We wanted to tie a bow on this series by bringing back Ben, who helped kick off this series on YOBcast 095, talking with somebody who doesn't identify as one particular Enneagram type but with multiple ones.
This final episode of the series is for the "Enneagram wanderers" and "Enneagram prodigals" – those who find themselves bouncing and searching among several types, and those more apathetic (or perhaps antagonistic?) with the Enneagram. We hope this broader conversation on decision-making, vices, and virtues resonates wherever you stand with (or even against) the Enneagram!
We start the conversation by diving into the three intelligence centers, as Ben tells us how he uses his heart, his head, and his gut as a maybe Two-Six-Nine. Tom also shares times when he's extended beyond his Four's heart center to utilize his head and gut – including how YOB's very formation in 2015 was rooted in that gut instinct. We close the episode by talking about the nine vices and nine virtues of the Enneagram, including anger at the church, avarice among other men, and our journey with lust and sobriety. Indeed, we really can glean something from all the types, not just fixating on our own.
Does Ben finally decide on his Enneagram type by the end of the episode? Listen below and find out! And thanks for all the support for this series. After a nice long break, we'll finally be back with a new YOBcast next time!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's free Enneagram test
➡️ The Enneagram Institute's paid RHETI test ($12 USD)
➡️ Enneagram Explained's intelligence centers
➡️ The Passions and Virtues of the Enneagram
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➡️ What did you enjoy most about this Enneagram series? Did anything challenge you?
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➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Saturday Aug 06, 2022
Saturday Aug 06, 2022
We conclude these Head Triad episodes, along with our entire Enneagram ConvoCast series with our brother from across the pond, Daniel! Daniel shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Seven (the Enthusiast). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Seven-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Daniel remembers the first time he felt shame for showing enthusiasm as a child, and how that response impacted his introversion – a rare disposition for Sevens. He discusses his love for travel, moving from the Philippines to the United Kingdom, visiting 35 cities in one year, seeing a different country every month, and even coming to America for multiple YOB retreats. But when does a love for travel turn to escape? When is escape healthy and courageous, and when is escape more detrimental? Regarding sexuality and relationships, was he constantly trying to escape something uncomfortable, something painful, something sad? We close the conversation with the growth and beauty of a Seven who can stay put and persevere – with others, with self, and with God.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and thanks for following us on this Enneagram journey this summer!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Type 7 Enneagram overview
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 7 in stress and growth
➡️ The Enneagram Institute's paid RHETI test ($12 USD)
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➡️ Are you an Enneagram Seven? How have you grown as a Seven in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jul 29, 2022
Friday Jul 29, 2022
We continue the Head Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with YOBcast regular, Aaron! Aaron shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Six (the Loyalist or Skeptic). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Six-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Aaron discusses the anxiety surrounding his sexuality through the years, including coming out to others as an adult and coming out to himself in high school. He also shares openly about taking medication to help with his anxiety. Throughout the episode we read lots of YOBBER feedback, much of it centering around anxious attachment with other men: how much ongoing reassurance is needed for the relationship, and how much is unhealthy? We talk a lot about fear in this episode, particularly relational fear and this ability to live out a Side B life, but also of courage and comfortability and the Six's ability to be incredibly loyal and steadfast! Perhaps if YOB and the greater "Side B" movement endure through the years, Type Sixes will be a big reason why.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us as we soon finish dialing around the Enneagram types in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Type 6 Enneagram overview
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 6 in stress and growth
➡️ YOBcast 051: Attachment Styles w/ Taylor Zimmerman
➡️ Aaron's first blog, "Running from the Call to Come Out"
➡️ The Road Back to You by Ian Cron and Suzanne Stabile
➡️ The Enneagram Institute's paid RHETI test ($12 USD)
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you an Enneagram Six? How have you grown as a Six in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/07/28/yob-convocast-051-aaron-unleashes-the-anxiety-as-a-six
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MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jul 22, 2022
Friday Jul 22, 2022
We open the Head Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with YOBcast regular, Will! Will shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Five (the Investigator or Intellectualist). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Five-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Fives are heady types, supreme thinkers and philosophers, as Will confirms his "endless curiosity" for books and learning, and returning to school whenever he hits an existential crisis. Enneagram expert Ian Cron describes Fives as the most misunderstood type, people with emotions beneath their intellectual exterior, and Will confirms his journey with processing difficult emotions. He shares the appeal of intellectual attraction versus physical attraction for the Five, and he explains how his problem-solving nature wanted to "fix" his "gay problem" in adolescence. During stress Will admits getting disorganized and clingy, but during security he's passionate about strengthening the people around him -- where, as a pastor, his Five-ness particularly shines. During times of doubt and questions, Will returns to the Gospels and his love for how Jesus makes sense of this world.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with the remaining types in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 5 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-5-investigator
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 5 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_5_Stress_And_Growth
➡️ Sleeping at Last's "Five" on our "Heart of a Brother" playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wT6X87eTCUg&list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW&index=31
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jul 15, 2022
Friday Jul 15, 2022
We conclude the Heart Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with a returning guest and member of our community, Alex! Both Alex and Tom share their motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Four (the Individualist or Romantic). As members of our YOB community, how does their Four-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Tom and Alex discuss the qualities they love about being Fours: artistic, empathetic, and yes, unique. In times of security they're objective and productive, taking action and creating things that add beauty to the world. A Four's "superpower" is empathy, giving others permission to "feel all the feels" with them, too. Tom and Alex also dive into their dark side of Four-ness: the neediness, the manipulation, the constant craving for approval, particularly from other men. Fours are often described as people who perceive lacking a critical "missing piece," and as queer or SSA men this hits especially deep for Tom and Alex. In adolescence did they miss some critical component for masculinity or sexuality, along with connecting with the other boys? What is the path forward for a Four in those whirlwinds of emotional stress?
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with each type in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 4 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-4-individualist
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 4 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_4_Stress_And_Growth
➡️ Sleeping at Last's "Four" on our "Heart of a Brother" playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qBhMFBo37Y&list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW&index=30
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you an Enneagram Four? How have you grown as a Four in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/07/15/yob-convocast-049-tom-alex-feel-all-the-feels-as-fours
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MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jul 01, 2022
Friday Jul 01, 2022
Adam makes his YOB podcast debut (or does he??) as he helps us get over the hump of this Enneagram ConvoCast series! As a member of our community he opens up about the need for vulnerability as a Three, along with the core struggle it launches against the impressive persona he strives to present. We ponder the reason why Threes are perhaps the least common type in YOB -- and maybe even within the greater "Side B" community? Is it simply because the closet is especially comfortable for a Three and less threatening to their reputation in the Church? Adam also confesses why he thinks Threes are the least desirable type in the Church and how that's impacted his ability to belong as a believer.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with each type in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 3 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-3-achiever
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 3 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_3_Stress_And_Growth
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you an Enneagram Three? How have you grown as a Three in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
GET IN TOUCH
📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009
📧 Email us: podcast@yourotherbrothers.com
✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
SUPPORT YOB
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jun 24, 2022
Friday Jun 24, 2022
Wes makes his podcasting debut as a longstanding Enneagram Two in our community! He shares with Tom his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Two (the Giver or Helper). How does Wes's Two-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Since so much of the Two's identity is tied to other people, we dive into this realm of "relating with other men" more than any other episode of this series. In particular, how does a Two respond to that precious loss in male friendship? How does a Two feel a sense of belonging with a community? How important is coming out for a Two? Wes also shares about the Two's relating with God: does a Two feel beautiful in God's eyes or merely tolerable to His purposes? How does the Two experience pride and manipulation in times of stress, and how does the Two experience self-care that isn't selfish during times of growth?
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these next few weeks as we dial around the Enneagram and talk to each type in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 2 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-2-giver
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 2 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_2_Stress_And_Growth
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you an Enneagram Two? How have you grown as a Two in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
GET IN TOUCH
📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009
📧 Email us: podcast@yourotherbrothers.com
✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
SUPPORT YOB
➡️ Join our Patreon community! http://patreon.com/yourotherbros
➡️ Shop the YOB Store! https://store.yourotherbrothers.com
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jun 17, 2022
Friday Jun 17, 2022
Jesse, an Enneagram One, shares with Tom his motivations, fears, stress, and security as the Perfectionist or Reformer. As a member of our YOB community, how does his One-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Jesse discusses his inclination to order and perfection and how that has translated to a need to "clean up" before God, particularly with his sexuality. He shares his love for lists and how he's only recently begun to prioritize tending to his sexual and gender identity. He talks about his messy stress path into Four as well as his security into Seven, including how he embraces a more spontaneous, adventure-seeking nature with his guy friends -- but only for two hours at a time.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these next few weeks as we dial around the Enneagram and talk to each type in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 1 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-1-perfectionist
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 1 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_1_Stress_And_Growth
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you an Enneagram One? How have you grown as a One in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
GET IN TOUCH
📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009
📧 Email us: podcast@yourotherbrothers.com
✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
SUPPORT YOB
➡️ Join our Patreon community! http://patreon.com/yourotherbros
➡️ Shop the YOB Store! https://store.yourotherbrothers.com
➡️ Give a one-time gift: https://linktr.ee/yourotherbros
FOLLOW YOB
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➡️ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@yourotherbros
➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Saturday Jun 04, 2022
Saturday Jun 04, 2022
We continue our Enneagram ConvoCast series with Mr. Nine and longtime cohost of the YOBcast: Ryan! Ryan shares with Tom his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Nine (the Peacemaker). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Nine-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Ryan compares himself to how Julia Roberts orders eggs in Runaway Bride, and he also pleads with other types to let him just enjoy his wrong restaurant order! He discusses the Nine's ability to "merge" with other people's passions and personalities in a loss of personal identity, and we read some extensive YOBBER feedback that exchanges "peace" for "unity" as a Nine's primary motivator. We discuss some other feedback about coming out publicly as a Nine versus coming out selectively to "keep the peace." What happens at a church after Ryan comes out and serves in the children's ministry, and some parents are acting a little off? Finally, Ryan shares about the Nine's fear of neediness as he reacts to the neediness in others.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation! And be sure to follow us these next few weeks as we dial around the Enneagram and talk to each type in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 9 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-9-peacemaker
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 9 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_9_Stress_And_Growth
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you an Enneagram Nine? How have you grown as a Nine in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Ryan's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/ryan/
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Friday May 27, 2022
Friday May 27, 2022
We kick off our Enneagram ConvoCast series with Mr. Eight himself: Matt! Matt shares with Tom about his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Eight (the Challenger). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Eight-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?
Matt shares why he often feels separate from members of the LGBT+ community and the YOB community, connecting more strongly with straight men. He also discusses his journey with vulnerability as a point of growth in his relationships. And he confirms that if an Eight truly loves you, he's loyal all the way! We close the conversation by including ways we we can all love the Eights in our lives better.
Listen to our full Enneagram conversation! And be sure to follow us these next few weeks as we dial around the Enneagram and talk to each type in our community!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
➡️ Truity's Type 8 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-8-challenger
➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 8 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_8_Stress_And_Growth
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➡️ Are you an Enneagram Eight? How have you grown as an Eight in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?
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➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.