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YC097: Scripture Stories, Part 2

YC097: Scripture Stories, Part 2

September 23, 2022

We open the scroll on our favorite Scripture stories once again, this time with Tom being joined by Ryan and Aaron! We discuss several Old Testament stories like Abraham and Isaac, Jonah, Hosea and Gomer, and Mephibosheth, as well as some New Testament stories like the man born blind, and Jesus and John at the Last Supper. How do these stories hit us in the crosshairs of our faith, sexuality, and masculinity?

We spend some time catching up on our summer trips after a long break! Aaron went to Yankees games and Broadway shows in New York, and Ryan survived a trip to Mexico without any sickness or sunburn.

Enjoy this second part of our big comeback episode! And please, if you would, call the YOBline before our big 100th episode celebration and let us know any favorite podcast moments or why you enjoy our show!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Aaron's Jonah blog: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2019/08/06/running-from-the-call-to-come-out/

➡️ "Carbon Ribs" by John Mark McMillan: https://youtu.be/wCq6u_8q_iE

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ What are some of your favorite stories from Scripture that speak to your journey with faith, homosexuality, and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️  https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/09/23/yobcast-097-scripture-stories-part-2

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MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “The Best is Yet to Come” by Tim Halperin; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

➡️ “Born Again” by Cory Asbury; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

CC054: Tom & Marshall, Ever the Groomsmen, Never the Groom!

CC054: Tom & Marshall, Ever the Groomsmen, Never the Groom!

September 16, 2022

Tom welcomes back Marshall to talk about things DEFINITELY NOT related to the Enneagram whatsoever. Marshall catches us up with his busy life on the farm, including a major life update of a dear friend’s impending marriage. Marshall shares both the negative and positive emotions involved in this coming change to the friendship, including being asked to be a groomsman. He reads from John 3:29 and discusses his joy as a “friend of the bridegroom,” and the guys discuss the effects of marriage on a mostly single/celibate community like YOB.

Tom also debuts an exciting new prop for the ConvoCast! And he affirms Marshall as a great dancer at weddings. Listen to our full conversation below as the ConvoCast returns to its usual half-hour length with (mostly) lack of Enneagram focus!

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ How have you navigated the changing season of a friend's marriage? How have you reacted to being asked (or not asked) to be the best man or a groomsman?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/09/16/yob-convocast-054-tom-marshall-ever-the-groomsmen-never-the-groom

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MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

YC096: Scripture Stories, Part 1

YC096: Scripture Stories, Part 1

September 9, 2022

After a summer of Enneagram ConvoCasts, we’re back with a new YOBcast! It's a two-part episode where we dive into some stories in Scripture that speak to us as SSA/LGBT+ people of faith wrestling with these matters of sexuality and masculinity. For Part 1, Tom is joined by Ben and Will to discuss Hagar, Rahab, the woman at the well, and the early church.

We also spend some time catching up with one another after a long break! Ben moved to another part of the Mitten, Will gives a strong take on instant coffee, and Tom traded his smartphone for a dumb-phone. We get a little crazy in the opening, and we also announce our next YOBBERS retreat coming this November! We'd love to see you there.

Enjoy this big comeback episode, and join us next time for Part 2 of Scripture Stories with Ryan and Aaron! And please, if you would, call the YOBline before our big 100th episode celebration!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Tom's anger blog: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/09/01/am-i-actually-in-touch-with-my-feelings-as-a-gay-man/

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ What are some of your favorite stories from Scripture that speak to your journey with faith, homosexuality, and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️  https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/09/09/yobcast-096-scripture-stories-part-1

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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465

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MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “The Best is Yet to Come” by Tim Halperin; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

CC053: Ben Still Has NO IDEA about His Enneagram Type!

CC053: Ben Still Has NO IDEA about His Enneagram Type!

August 13, 2022

Just when you thought our Enneagram series was finished – we're back with another Ennea episode! We promise this ConvoCast will actually be the last one on the Enneagram (at least for a good while). We wanted to tie a bow on this series by bringing back Ben, who helped kick off this series on YOBcast 095, talking with somebody who doesn't identify as one particular Enneagram type but with multiple ones.

This final episode of the series is for the "Enneagram wanderers" and "Enneagram prodigals" – those who find themselves bouncing and searching among several types, and those more apathetic (or perhaps antagonistic?) with the Enneagram. We hope this broader conversation on decision-making, vices, and virtues resonates wherever you stand with (or even against) the Enneagram!

We start the conversation by diving into the three intelligence centers, as Ben tells us how he uses his heart, his head, and his gut as a maybe Two-Six-Nine. Tom also shares times when he's extended beyond his Four's heart center to utilize his head and gut – including how YOB's very formation in 2015 was rooted in that gut instinct. We close the episode by talking about the nine vices and nine virtues of the Enneagram, including anger at the church, avarice among other men, and our journey with lust and sobriety. Indeed, we really can glean something from all the types, not just fixating on our own.

Does Ben finally decide on his Enneagram type by the end of the episode? Listen below and find out! And thanks for all the support for this series. After a nice long break, we'll finally be back with a new YOBcast next time!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's free Enneagram test

➡️ The Enneagram Institute's paid RHETI test ($12 USD)

➡️ Enneagram Explained's intelligence centers

➡️ The Passions and Virtues of the Enneagram

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ What did you enjoy most about this Enneagram series? Did anything challenge you?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️  https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/08/13/yob-convocast-053-ben-still-has-no-idea-about-his-enneagram-type

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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465

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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW

MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

CC052: Daniel Wants a Travel Buddy as a SEVEN!

CC052: Daniel Wants a Travel Buddy as a SEVEN!

August 6, 2022

We conclude these Head Triad episodes, along with our entire Enneagram ConvoCast series with our brother from across the pond, Daniel! Daniel shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Seven (the Enthusiast). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Seven-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?

Daniel remembers the first time he felt shame for showing enthusiasm as a child, and how that response impacted his introversion – a rare disposition for Sevens. He discusses his love for travel, moving from the Philippines to the United Kingdom, visiting 35 cities in one year, seeing a different country every month, and even coming to America for multiple YOB retreats. But when does a love for travel turn to escape? When is escape healthy and courageous, and when is escape more detrimental? Regarding sexuality and relationships, was he constantly trying to escape something uncomfortable, something painful, something sad? We close the conversation with the growth and beauty of a Seven who can stay put and persevere – with others, with self, and with God.

Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and thanks for following us on this Enneagram journey this summer!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's Enneagram test

➡️ Truity's Type 7 Enneagram overview

➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 7 in stress and growth

➡️ The Enneagram Institute's paid RHETI test ($12 USD)

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ Are you an Enneagram Seven? How have you grown as a Seven in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/08/06/yob-convocast-052-daniel-wants-a-travel-buddy-as-a-seven

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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465

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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW

MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

CC051: Aaron Unleashes the Anxiety as a SIX!

CC051: Aaron Unleashes the Anxiety as a SIX!

July 29, 2022

We continue the Head Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with YOBcast regular, Aaron! Aaron shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Six (the Loyalist or Skeptic). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Six-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?

Aaron discusses the anxiety surrounding his sexuality through the years, including coming out to others as an adult and coming out to himself in high school. He also shares openly about taking medication to help with his anxiety. Throughout the episode we read lots of YOBBER feedback, much of it centering around anxious attachment with other men: how much ongoing reassurance is needed for the relationship, and how much is unhealthy? We talk a lot about fear in this episode, particularly relational fear and this ability to live out a Side B life, but also of courage and comfortability and the Six's ability to be incredibly loyal and steadfast! Perhaps if YOB and the greater "Side B" movement endure through the years, Type Sixes will be a big reason why.

Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us as we soon finish dialing around the Enneagram types in our community!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's Enneagram test

➡️ Truity's Type 6 Enneagram overview

➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 6 in stress and growth

➡️ YOBcast 051: Attachment Styles w/ Taylor Zimmerman

➡️ Aaron's first blog, "Running from the Call to Come Out"

➡️ The Road Back to You by Ian Cron and Suzanne Stabile

➡️ The Enneagram Institute's paid RHETI test ($12 USD)

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ Are you an Enneagram Six? How have you grown as a Six in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/07/28/yob-convocast-051-aaron-unleashes-the-anxiety-as-a-six

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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465

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GET IN TOUCH

📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009

📧 Email us: podcast@yourotherbrothers.com

✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802

SUPPORT YOB

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➡️ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@yourotherbros

➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW

MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

 

CC050: Will is Supremely Uninterested in the Enneagram as a FIVE!

CC050: Will is Supremely Uninterested in the Enneagram as a FIVE!

July 22, 2022

We open the Head Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with YOBcast regular, Will! Will shares his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Five (the Investigator or Intellectualist). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Five-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?

Fives are heady types, supreme thinkers and philosophers, as Will confirms his "endless curiosity" for books and learning, and returning to school whenever he hits an existential crisis. Enneagram expert Ian Cron describes Fives as the most misunderstood type, people with emotions beneath their intellectual exterior, and Will confirms his journey with processing difficult emotions. He shares the appeal of intellectual attraction versus physical attraction for the Five, and he explains how his problem-solving nature wanted to "fix" his "gay problem" in adolescence. During stress Will admits getting disorganized and clingy, but during security he's passionate about strengthening the people around him -- where, as a pastor, his Five-ness particularly shines. During times of doubt and questions, Will returns to the Gospels and his love for how Jesus makes sense of this world.

Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with the remaining types in our community!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

➡️ Truity's Type 5 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-5-investigator

➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 5 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_5_Stress_And_Growth

➡️ Sleeping at Last's "Five" on our "Heart of a Brother" playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wT6X87eTCUg&list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW&index=31

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ Are you an Enneagram Five? How have you grown as a Five in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/07/22/yob-convocast-050-will-is-supremely-uninterested-in-the-enneagram-as-a-five

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GET IN TOUCH

📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009

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✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802

SUPPORT YOB

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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW

MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

CC049: Tom & Alex Feel All the Feels as FOURs!

CC049: Tom & Alex Feel All the Feels as FOURs!

July 15, 2022

We conclude the Heart Triad portion of our Enneagram ConvoCast series with a returning guest and member of our community, Alex! Both Alex and Tom share their motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Four (the Individualist or Romantic). As members of our YOB community, how does their Four-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?

Tom and Alex discuss the qualities they love about being Fours: artistic, empathetic, and yes, unique. In times of security they're objective and productive, taking action and creating things that add beauty to the world. A Four's "superpower" is empathy, giving others permission to "feel all the feels" with them, too. Tom and Alex also dive into their dark side of Four-ness: the neediness, the manipulation, the constant craving for approval, particularly from other men. Fours are often described as people who perceive lacking a critical "missing piece," and as queer or SSA men this hits especially deep for Tom and Alex. In adolescence did they miss some critical component for masculinity or sexuality, along with connecting with the other boys? What is the path forward for a Four in those whirlwinds of emotional stress?

Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with each type in our community!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

➡️ Truity's Type 4 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-4-individualist

➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 4 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_4_Stress_And_Growth

➡️ Sleeping at Last's "Four" on our "Heart of a Brother" playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qBhMFBo37Y&list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW&index=30

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ Are you an Enneagram Four? How have you grown as a Four in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/07/15/yob-convocast-049-tom-alex-feel-all-the-feels-as-fours

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📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009

📧 Email us: podcast@yourotherbrothers.com

✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802

SUPPORT YOB

➡️ Join our Patreon community! http://patreon.com/yourotherbros​

➡️ Shop the YOB Store! https://store.yourotherbrothers.com​

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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW

MUSIC CREDIT

➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

CC048: Adam Loves/Loathes This Vulnerable Spotlight as a THREE!

CC048: Adam Loves/Loathes This Vulnerable Spotlight as a THREE!

July 1, 2022

Adam makes his YOB podcast debut (or does he??) as he helps us get over the hump of this Enneagram ConvoCast series! As a member of our community he opens up about the need for vulnerability as a Three, along with the core struggle it launches against the impressive persona he strives to present. We ponder the reason why Threes are perhaps the least common type in YOB -- and maybe even within the greater "Side B" community? Is it simply because the closet is especially comfortable for a Three and less threatening to their reputation in the Church? Adam also confesses why he thinks Threes are the least desirable type in the Church and how that's impacted his ability to belong as a believer.

Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these last few weeks as we finish dialing around the Enneagram with each type in our community!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

➡️ Truity's Type 3 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-3-achiever

➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 3 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_3_Stress_And_Growth

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➡️ Are you an Enneagram Three? How have you grown as a Three in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?

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CC047: Wes Wants You to Please Touch Him as a TWO!

CC047: Wes Wants You to Please Touch Him as a TWO!

June 24, 2022

Wes makes his podcasting debut as a longstanding Enneagram Two in our community! He shares with Tom his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Two (the Giver or Helper). How does Wes's Two-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other men?

Since so much of the Two's identity is tied to other people, we dive into this realm of "relating with other men" more than any other episode of this series. In particular, how does a Two respond to that precious loss in male friendship? How does a Two feel a sense of belonging with a community? How important is coming out for a Two? Wes also shares about the Two's relating with God: does a Two feel beautiful in God's eyes or merely tolerable to His purposes? How does the Two experience pride and manipulation in times of stress, and how does the Two experience self-care that isn't selfish during times of growth?

Listen to our full Enneagram conversation, and be sure to follow us these next few weeks as we dial around the Enneagram and talk to each type in our community!

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE

➡️ Truity's Enneagram test: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test

➡️ Truity's Type 2 Enneagram overview: https://www.truity.com/enneagram/personality-type-2-giver

➡️ Enneagram Gift's Type 2 in stress and growth: https://enneagramgift.com/enneagram-stress-and-growth/#Enneagram_2_Stress_And_Growth

COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

➡️ Are you an Enneagram Two? How have you grown as a Two in relation to your sexuality and masculinity?

PODCAST EPISODE PAGE

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➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.

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