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Jul 19, 2026
Jul 19, 2026
2hr 3 min
What now? Last episode, we defined who gender minorities are, people inside the Church and out who don’t fit typically into the gendered binary, answering some “dumb questions” about their lived experience. But how do we love gender minorities well, including welcoming them in “Side B” spaces like Your Other Family? Join us for Part 2 of this important conversation as Tom, Erin, and Jesse address the questions, concerns, and fears from our YOB and YOS community members who submitted anonymous feedback. Some of this feedback is uncomfortable. Unknowns are often uncomfortable. We want to enter into healthy conflict with one another and explore the unknown with curious empathy. We hope you enter our discussion with your spirit open, ready to receive whatever Jesus has for you as we all navigate, reclaim, and integrate the complexities of our faith, sexuality, and gender. Together.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- YOFcast 003: Gender Minorities, Part 1
- YOBcast 078: Masturbation
- “Shoot Christians Say” from Tripp & Tyler
- Trans resource page from Kaleidoscope
- Gender incongruence course from Equip
- Resources/seminars on trans ministry and identity from Posture Shift
- “A Letter to My Cis Side B Family” from Logan on The Matchbook Collective
- “On Being ‘Socially Legible as a Woman’” with Odessa the Barefoot from New Kinship
- “Gender-Queer and Gospel-Centered” with Lesli Hudson-Reynolds from Theology in the Raw with Dr. Preston Sprinkle
- “Gender Dysphoria, Church Hurt, and Enduring Hope in Jesus” with Remington Rathjen from Theology in the Raw with Dr. Preston Sprinkle
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- Intro/outro theme: “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams
- Benediction theme: “The Breast of Mercy” by John Luca ft. Andy Squyres
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you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Jul 3, 2026
Jul 3, 2026
3 min
Welcome to Your Other Family Podcast Network! A collection of shows from the nonprofit ministry of Your Other Family, which includes our communities of Your Other Brothers and Your Other Sisters. We share authentic stories of faith, sexuality, and gender as LGBT+ or same-sex attracted people following Jesus with a historic sexual and marriage ethic, increasingly regarded as a “Side B” theology.
Listen to our extensive podcast archive, explore our links below, and reach out to us any time!
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- “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams (100% clearance through Musicbed)
you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Jun 12, 2026
Jun 12, 2026
1hr 36 min
Does everyone fit neatly into male and female? Where do many queer/SSA people experience an uncomfortable gender incongruence with their culture, and where do some experience a deeper gender dysphoria? Tom and Erin welcome YOF board member Jesse to share their experience as a gender minority in Your Other Brothers. We answer honest questions from our YOB+YOS members as we start a long overdue conversation with curiosity and empathy for gender minorities who are nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, and transgender.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- Jesse’s Barbie podcast
- Jesse’s Enneagram One podcast
- Jesse’s demisexual podcast
- Revoice
- Kaleidoscope
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- Intro/outro theme: “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams
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you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Jun 5, 2026
Jun 5, 2026
53 min
Erin welcomes back Ashley and introduces Tangle for a discussion inspired by conversations from the Life on Side B and Your Other Brothers podcasts. So much can be said about queer representation in the media, especially as more queer stories have been told in the last couple years. Join us as we discuss our favorite TV shows and movies, including how queer characters have impacted them, and what we would like to see in future queer media productions. We end our episode with a lightning round of guessing the sexualities of cartoon villains from our childhood!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
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Ashley’s Charmed blog: “The Sisters Who Happened to be Witches”
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Ashley’s favorites: Warrior Nun, Dead to Me, League of Their Own, Lioness, Supergirl, Fried Green Tomatoes
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Tangle’s favorites: Arcane, Warrior Nun, The Owl House, Atypical
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Erin’s favorites: Hacks, Saved!, But I’m a Cheerleader, The Children’s Hour (disclaimer: not a feel-good film), Wake Up Dead Man (bonus for great Christian clergy representation)
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
What are your favorite TV shows and movies that feature LGBT characters? What character or character dynamic made you feel seen while watching? What stories would you like to see be told via movie or TV show?
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MUSIC CREDIT
- “Be More” by Linden Hope, used with permission.
you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Jun 1, 2026
Jun 1, 2026
1hr 47 min
Ten years of the YOBcast and not a single nudity episode?! Until now. Join Tom, Ryan, Matt, and a special guest to discuss this important intersection of nudity, body image, and vulnerability with other men. How did our familial and peer upbringings shape our relationship with nudity as adults? How have we – or haven’t we – entered nude environments like doctor’s offices, locker rooms, and Korean spas? We share stories of how appropriate, non-sexual nudity has initiated deeper brotherhood, and also stories of insecurity or lack of desire to be nude with other men.
Wherever you fall on this “nudity desire spectrum,” we hope this episode helps you reconsider your relationship with your own body, as well as your embodied relationships with the men around you. We also discuss Sam Allberry’s resignation and the impact on our community.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- Sponsor a gay sheep!
- YOB ConvoCast 100: Tom & Ryan Tease the Topics to Come!
- Eugene’s teased blog: “Exploring the Connection of Gay Men and Nudism”
- Eugene’s blog: “My Complicated Relationship with Nudity”
- Eugene’s blog: “Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires”
- Eugene’s blog: “Male Nudity Will Fix Me”
- Eugene’s blog: “I Wanted a Brother at the Nudist Resort”
- Eugene’s blog: “When I Discovered the Korean Spa”
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
Where have you experienced safe, non-sexual nudity with other men? Why do you, or don’t you, desire nudity with men?
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- Intro/outro theme: “Borderland” by John Mark McMillan
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you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
May 21, 2026
May 21, 2026
13 min
We’ve taken a step back with podcast production as Tom has been refocusing his efforts and part-time hours on the YOB community. With more podcasts recently recorded and coming soon, Tom also takes some time to process the Alan Chambers arrest, following the former Exodus International president’s alleged solicitation of a minor. We encourage you to feel your feelings; please reach out to us anytime. We’re with you.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- YOF General Giving
- YOB Membership
- YOS Membership
- YOF Newsletter Signup
- Follow YOF
- Follow YOB
- Follow YOS
- Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
- Email Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.org
you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Mar 27, 2026
Mar 27, 2026
1hr 46 min
An eclectic mix of questions from our YOBBERS community gets answered in our first-ever mailbag episode! Join Tom, Ryan, and Matt for some deep dives on hell, Korean spas, bodily insecurities, and much more. We also look back at our previous episode and tie up some investigative loose ends regarding the Sexiest Man Alive committee and the categorization of gay sheep.
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Share a story, or ask a question on any of the topics discussed in this episode! We’d love to follow up on a future episode.
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- Intro/outro theme: “Borderland” by John Mark McMillan
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you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Mar 3, 2026
Mar 3, 2026
1hr 31 min
Tom and Erin welcome Dr. Mark Yarhouse and Dr. Julia Sadusky, co-authors of Emerging Sexual Identities. We dive into sexual identity language and the reality that Gen Z is identifying in more diverse, specific ways than any previous generation. Mark and Julia explain the concept of residual, dominant, and emergent taxonomies for sexual identity language, such as “homosexual,” “gay,” and “greysexual,” respectively. We also learn about the coining of the term “heterosexual,” the nonjudgmental merits of queer theory, and how people are holding faith and sexuality together and separately. How do we as a community integrate the two in a healthy way?
Stay tuned for the end of the episode as Tom and Erin debrief their conversation with Mark and Julia. They also give updates on our ministry’s current funding status and the future of the YOFcast, as well as the other shows on our YOF Podcast Network!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- Emerging Sexual Identities on Amazon
- Sexual and Gender Identity Institute (SGI) from Mark Yarhouse
- Julia Sadusky’s website
- YOScast 002: Being a “Late Bloomer”
- “The Sisters Who Happened to be Witches” by Ashley
PODCAST VIDEO
- Watch our interview with Mark & Julia on YouTube!
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MUSIC CREDIT
- Intro/outro theme: “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams
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you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Feb 16, 2026
Feb 16, 2026
56 min
Tom welcomes new friend Drew Boa of Husband Material to dive into his book, Outgrow Porn. Tom shares his favorite tools from Drew’s toolbox for overcoming porn and unwanted sexual behaviors, including the breathe-observe-attune (BOA) method, “connecting the dots” from shame to glory and loss to connection, and non-dominant handwriting to connect with your inner child. Adult Tom vulnerably shares some recent journal entries with Little Tom as he reflects on his own journey with loneliness and restlessness, particularly amongst other boys, and how this has fed an often irresistible attraction or fetish for certain aspects of straight men.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- Tom’s appearance on Drew Boa’s Husband Material podcast: “Why Men Need Men”
- Drew Boa’s Husband Material community
- Drew Boa’s book, Outgrow Porn
PODCAST VIDEO
- Watch Tom’s conversation with Drew on YouTube!
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- "Feel it All" by sød ven; 100% clearance through Musicbed
you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
Jan 31, 2026
Jan 31, 2026
1hr 1 min
Tom welcomes back his younger brother Andy for this annual episode of previewing the Super Bowl! It’s the Seattle Seahawks vs. the New England Patriots for Super Bowl LX. Before we get to Andy’s top stories of this year’s big game, we catch up on the biggest year of his life with a new baby girl – and also that the Eagles won last year’s Super Bowl. We sneak in some Taylor Swift talk, including her podcast appearance with the Kelce brothers, and her future mother-in-law appearing on this season of The Traitors. Andy answers some silly yet relevant questions from our YOBBERS community, and he gets vulnerable about why football and the lesser things in life stress him out way more than the larger things do.
PODCAST VIDEO
- Watch Tom’s conversation with Andy on YouTube!
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- "Feel it All" by sød ven; 100% clearance through Musicbed
you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home