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Episodes
Friday Sep 01, 2023
Friday Sep 01, 2023
Matthew makes his first appearance on the podcast after writing a couple guest blogs for us! He currently serves on YOB's leadership team and is, in his own words: "just a plain old gay." He's been active in the YOB community for years, but why did it take so long for him to share his story publicly? He opens up about his long road of coming out to himself before he could ever come out to other people, referencing his Enneagram Three shame with authenticity and difficult emotions. He talks about taking metaphorical trips to the desert to lament his dreams of marriage, family, ministry, purpose, and influence, and he also beams about his sexuality's blessings, including a moment leading worship at his first YOBBERS retreat in 2021. Join us as we continue SPANNING THE SPECTRUM of sexuality in our community! We hope you feel heard and seen, all you plain old gays out there.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Matthew's first blog, "My Gay Secret Led Me to Becoming an Other Brother"
➡️ Matthew's second blog, "As Spring Melts the Shame of My Sexuality"
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Do you feel unremarkable as a "plain old gay"? Where have you seen God lessen or break your shame, and use your sexuality for His glory?
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➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Aug 25, 2023
Friday Aug 25, 2023
Jesse of the great City of Oaks returns to discuss his sexuality as someone on the asexual (ace) spectrum, identifying as demisexual: someone who only develops sexual feelings when a strong emotional bond is also present. He goes into the difficulties of growing up different in a sexually charged culture, as well as the blessings of being a source of safety with his guy friends. We also dive into types of attraction, the repulsion of sex, and the chore of masturbation in this jam-packed, in-person episode!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Jesse's Enneagram ConvoCast: Jesse Can Summon Two Hours of Fun as a One!
➡️ Jubilee's YouTube video: Do All Asexuals Think the Same?
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Do you also identify as asexual or demisexual? What's similar about your story and what's different?
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MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Saturday Aug 12, 2023
Saturday Aug 12, 2023
Keegan returns to the podcast after two and a half years to give another perspective on bisexuality in this SPANNING THE SPECTRUM sexuality series. He shares what resonated with Alex's bi episode, like the concept of "bi panic," along with how he contrasted with the conversation as well, such as feeling like a "minority of a minority" in our YOB community. He tells his story of coming to grips with bisexuality, including how YOB played a role in this revelation. Tom and Keegan also bond over recently hanging out in person for the first time!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Keegan's first ConvoCast: "Tom & Keegan Encourage the Lurkers!"
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you bisexual? What resonates or contrasts with your story? Do you feel like a "minority of a minority" in Side B circles?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jul 21, 2023
Friday Jul 21, 2023
We continue SPANNING THE SPECTRUM of sexual identity in our community as first-time guest Adam opens up about being cross-oriented: physically and sexually attracted to men, and romantically and emotionally attracted to women. He also describes this orientation as "heteroromantic homosexual." We dive into the nuance of his unique orientation: why Adam doesn't identify as bisexual, and why Adam steers away from any association of "identity" to describe his orientation. We close the episode with the struggles and joys of being cross-oriented: how Adam sometimes wonders where he belongs (even within YOB as he shares an uncomfortable experience from his first retreat), and how Adam can empathize with many types of people (serving him well as an Enneagram Two).
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Do you resonate with being cross-oriented? How have you pieced together your sexuality in this journey of self-discovery?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jul 14, 2023
Friday Jul 14, 2023
Ben joins Tom in-studio for a conversation on his sexual identity as we continue "Spanning the Spectrum" this summer. Ben shares about being married to his best friend, a woman, for the last 15 years and why he opts for queer over bi as his primary identifier. He discloses some of the challenges in this identification as he explains (or defends) himself with certain Christians. He also reveals the joys of his orientation, including how he and his wife have opened their home as a refuge for other queer folks.
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Do you also identify as queer, and how has your journey taken you this identification? What's your greatest struggle as well as your deepest joy in your sexuality?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Saturday Jul 08, 2023
Saturday Jul 08, 2023
Alex returns to discuss his sexual identity as a bisexual Christian in this "Spanning the Spectrum" ConvoCast series! Alex answers whether he's felt like a "minority of a minority" in our YOB community, and he shares his long journey coming to terms with his bisexuality -- both with himself and the Holy Spirit. He dispels the myth that he and all other bi people are 50-50 attracted both to men and women at all times and in all seasons of life. He shares why it isn't necessarily "easier" being attracted to both sexes rather than exclusively attracted to the same sex as a Side B person. And we close the episode as Alex shares the joys and blessings of being a bisexual Christian, building an empathy for all kinds of people.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ Alex's Love, Victor ConvoCast
➡️ Alex's Enneagram 4 ConvoCast
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ Are you also a bisexual Christian? What's your greatest struggle as well as your deepest joy in your sexuality?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
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✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Jun 23, 2023
Friday Jun 23, 2023
Marshall joins us as another "OG" contributor and cofounder of YOB to share his perspective on this "Spanning the Spectrum" sexual identity series. He shares why he doesn’t identify as gay or SSA despite only experiencing attraction for men. He also discusses a marriage conversation he once had with a woman he dated. He shares the time of his life that presented his greatest struggles with gay temptation, as well as the thing that’s brought him the most joy in his sexuality. Tom closes the conversation with a little surprise for Marshall in the form of a song!
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- Owl City's "Field Notes": https://youtu.be/-LZ_xoHAQfk
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ How do you sexually identify, if you do?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
➡️ Marshall's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/marshall/
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📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009
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✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
SUPPORT YOB
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Saturday Jun 17, 2023
Saturday Jun 17, 2023
We kick off a new summer ConvoCast series exploring the diverse sexual identifications within our YOB community. We start with Matt who identifies as gay and Christian, but not those two identities together. He tells of his journey from "SSA" to gay and how he recently experienced feelings for a girl for the first time in his life. He shares about going to a source outside the Church to learn whether his sexual identification is as rigid as it seems.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
- Matt's blog: "Why I Don't Call Myself a Gay Christian"
- Matt's blog: "So, I Told a Girl I Like Her"
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ How do you identify? Do you also resonate with the tension of identifying as a gay Christian?
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
➡️ Matt's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/matt/
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📞 Call the YOBline: 706.389.8009
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “Growing Pains” by Layup; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday May 05, 2023
Friday May 05, 2023
We conclude our 7-values series by exploring our other "ship" of discipleship! How do we define this spiritual term? Is discipleship meant only for our own growth, or is our discipleship also for the people around us? How organized or structured must discipleship of believers look? And how have we felt disqualified from discipling others in their walks with Jesus because of our sexuality?
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ YOB's 7 Values: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/values/
➡️ Wesley's art: https://www.artofatlas.com/
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ What connotations do you feel with this value of discipleship? Have you felt disqualified or somehow handicapped from discipleship as a sexual minority? How do you disciple others?
PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2023/05/05/yobcast-107-discipleship
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
➡️ Ryan's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/ryan/
➡️ Ben's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/ben/
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📞 Call the YOBline: 1.706.389.8009 or email us a voice memo
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✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
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➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “The Best is Yet to Come” intro/outro theme by Tim Halperin; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
➡️ “Born Again” benediction instrumental by Cory Asbury; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
Friday Apr 21, 2023
Friday Apr 21, 2023
Once upon a time, Your Other Brothers held to the value of brotherhood! But we've since shifted this value to one of kinship. Why the change? What does kinship evoke, both for this life and the next, and how do we build or "practice" this value of kinship? When have we felt that sense of belonging outside our blood family, and when have we felt the opposite with our sexuality and masculinity, as strangers and aliens? This second-to-last value in our 7-values series ties nicely with our last value, the other "ship" of discipleship. If kinship means climbing into a boat together, discipleship is setting sail! We hope you'll join us for the follow-up and finale soon.
LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
➡️ YOB's 7 Values: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/values/
➡️ Wesley's art: https://www.artofatlas.com/
➡️ YOB ConvoCast 043: Tom & Alex Love LOVE, VICTOR: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2022/03/05/yob-convocast-043-tom-alex-love-love-victor/
COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE
➡️ When have you experienced kinship with another person or a community, and when have you felt more like a stranger or alien?
PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
➡️ https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/2023/04/21/URL Slugyobcast-106-kinship
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➡️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-other-brothers-podcast/id1142011465
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➡️ Tom’s posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/tom/
➡️ Ryan's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/ryan/
➡️ Ben's posts: https://www.yourotherbrothers.com/author/ben/
GET IN TOUCH
📞 Call the YOBline: 1.706.389.8009 or email us a voice memo
📧 Email us: podcast@yourotherbrothers.com
✉️ Mail us: Your Other Brothers / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
SUPPORT YOB
➡️ Join our Patreon community! http://patreon.com/yourotherbros
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➡️ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@yourotherbros
➡️ “Heart of a Brother” Spotify playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9_-P-9jAEy3Ise3zagEOWdnpdlyAcuaW
MUSIC CREDIT
➡️ “The Best is Yet to Come” intro/outro theme by Tim Halperin; 100% clearance through Musicbed.
➡️ “Born Again” benediction instrumental by Cory Asbury; 100% clearance through Musicbed.